Erogenous Zones

We tend to associate becoming aroused with either stimulating or having our genitals stimulated in some way. Whilst genital touch can be extremely blissful, there is a far wider spectrum of subtle sensation to be explored in the body. And the more that I travel along this path of conscious sexuality, the more I experience ecstasy in the most unexpected of body parts. 🌟

A few days ago, for example, I was receiving a self-empowerment massage from a fellow sexological bodyworker as part of our training practice. I was experiencing a lot of back pain on that day and so had the spontaneous idea of lying on my shakti mat whilst having my feet touched.

I cannot even begin to express the level of pleasure which I experienced during these thirty minutes of the massage. The combination of the blood circulating in my back due to the acupressure of the mat and the tender, teasing massage of the soles of my feet and toes was off-the-scale arousing! So I guess you could call this my first toegasm! 😆

It is exciting to me that I can experience full-on arousal without the slightest touch of my yoni or nipples. A big lesson that we do not always have to revert to our go-to places to get our kicks!

Here are some examples of the countless unexpected erogenous zones which can produce sexual arousal or heightened sensitivity when stimulated, despite not being commonly associated with sexual pleasure:

Scalp: Gentle massage or light scratching of the scalp can be surprisingly pleasurable for many people. 💆‍♀️

Earlobes: Kissing, nibbling, or gently sucking on the earlobes can be highly arousing for some individuals. 👂💋

Lower back: Light touches or caresses along the lower back, near the tailbone, can elicit pleasurable sensations. 🖐️

Inner thighs: The inner thighs are often overlooked but can be highly sensitive to touch and stimulation. 👀

Feet: Massaging or kissing the feet, particularly the soles and arches, can be surprisingly erotic for some people. 👣💋

Nape of the neck: Gentle kisses or nibbles on the nape of the neck can be incredibly arousing due to the proximity to sensitive nerve endings. 💏

Behind the knees: Light touches or kisses behind the knees can be unexpectedly pleasurable due to the high concentration of nerve endings in this area. 🦵💋

Which are you most curious to explore? What are your most unexpected erogenous zones?