Belonging is our Nature

I often feel like I don’t belong in the eyes of society.

I mean… I’m a 49-year-old, happily unmarried, highly-sensitive, expat, Tantra-loving, childless woman — and let’s face it, I tick a lot of the minority boxes! 😅
(Those of you who know me well know the list goes on…)

🐾 And yes, for the record — my three furry feline friends are absolutely my babies!

All joking aside, this lack of societal belonging can have an impact.

I feel different. Unrelatable. Unconventional. Sometimes even… triggering.

There are moments I feel misunderstood — and silently judged — for having made choices that nice, wholesome, performative women just don’t make.

And in former days this used to give me a feeling of separation.

✨Fortunately, a wiser, more spiritually-evolved part of me knows that I belong.
Because I exist.
We all do.

And that part of me deeply respects the courage it takes to live an authentic life.

One of my dear Dad’s favourite sayings was:
“Have the courage of your convictions.”

And I’m certainly living by his words. 💫

However different or eccentric we may appear on the outside, our soft, tender, perfectly imperfect humanity is undeniably familiar.

We all want to be felt, heard, seen, and loved.

And most of us are doing the best we can, from our current level of consciousness.

As poet Danna Faulds says:
“Everything is unique at its surface and indistinguishable at its core.”

🌹 Being at home in my sensuality and sexuality has created an immense sense of belonging —
One that could never be replaced by conforming to societal norms or majority demographics.

💌 Would you like to feel more at home in your sexuality — and feel a real sense of truth and aliveness in your body and your relationships?

✨ Book an intro call — I’d love to hear your story and be your guide.