Come as You Are

On Saturday, I, somewhat reluctantly, went to a women’s networking event in Zurich. Truth be told, I was feeling **super low on energy,  very menopausal, and asking myself, “Why the hell didn’t I just stay wrapped up in my duvet binge-watching First Dates?” 😅 Oops—now my guilty pleasure is out!)

However, as soon as I arrived, I had an easeful and deeply connected conversation with a woman who immediately wanted to know more about my work. Throughout the day, I noticed people were naturally gravitating toward me—even in my low-energy state.

This was a revelation for me. I’m used to having high energy and relying on it to “show up.” So much so that I struggle to accept myself on the rare days when my energy is low.

And yet, there I was—owning my low energy, being authentic, and feeling “attractive” nonetheless. But in a different way… in a slower, more effortless way.

Then, I started thinking about sexuality.

It’s easy to fall into the trap of performance—feeling the need to deliver in the bedroom.  

But what happens when you just show up as you are? In all of your beautiful humanity, open-hearted and ready to connect?

Tantric sex isn’t about performance or impressing. It’s about slowing down, connecting deeply, and savouring the moment with your partner—without worrying about reaching a goal or outcome. 🌸

Receiving a Tantra massage can help you melt into your truest self and experience pleasure without the need to strive for it.