Reignite the Spark

Do you ever feel like your partner’s touch feels… off? Or missing altogether? I

f you’ve been carrying this unspoken ache, you’re not alone.

Many individuals and couples I work with share quiet confessions about touch that feels misplaced, misunderstood—or simply absent. And it’s often wrapped in deeper stories, such as:

• “We never touch.”
• “I feel affection, but not desire.”
• “Touch means pressure—not pleasure.”

It’s easy to overlook, but there are layers to these feelings. The touch you crave might have been replaced by logistics, the kind of touch that feels like a demand for sex instead of a shared moment of connection. Or perhaps, past trauma has made touch something to avoid rather than embrace.

We’re left wondering—when did we stop touching with intention? With care? With presence?

In our sessions, I introduce the concept of touch as a continuum—each kind of touch carrying its own unique language:

• Healing
• Affectionate
• Sensual
• Erotic
• Sexual

The way we touch, the why, and the how all matter. It’s deeply felt. Healing begins when we acknowledge and respect the power of touch. Whether it’s a hug that feels nourishing instead of demanding, or a caress that speaks the language of affection, these moments have the potential to transform a relationship.

But how do you reconnect when touch has become a place of fear or distance?

It’s possible. With patience and awareness, we can reclaim the safe, nourishing physical connection we long for. I guide clients in expressing their touch desires without words, bridging the gap between what is and what could be.

So, if you’re ready to feel more in touch with yourself, your partner, and your pleasure, here are two ways to start:

• Book your personalised Sexological Bodywork journey: A safe space to explore, release, and reconnect with your body and your desires.
• Step into nature with a 1:1 Rise into Radiance In-Nature Day Retreat: A day designed to reset your nervous system, awaken your sensuality, and realign with your joy.

It’s your invitation to feel renewed, re-energised, and radically empowered in your body and life.

Limited spring spaces available—secure your spot and start your radiance revival now.

Let’s reignite that spark.

With warmth and safety always,
Sam