Tantra FAQ's
How is a Tantra massage different from a 'normal' massage?
A Tantra massage is a holistic massage which includes consensual touch everywhere in the body, including genitals.
What should I look for in a Tantra practitioner if I’ve never had a massage?
A professional Tantra masseuse will have undertaken rigorous training and acquired an officially recognised certification, will generally request an introductory chat before the session and will work in a safe, trustworthy and nurturing way with clear boundaries. Professional Tantra practitioners offer massage with clearly defined roles (client receives, practitioner gives).
How do I book and pay?
The steps are:
Can I have a Tantra massage when I have my period?
Yes, it’s fine to have a Tantra massage when you have your period. You can wear a tampon which can be removed if you wish during the session. Not a problem at all.
Is it a sexual massage?
Tantra massage seeks to activate our sexual, Kundalini or life force energy which is located at the bottom of the spine and to nourish the body and energetic field with this energy. It is possible to have highly arousing and orgasmic sensations and waves and it is equally possible to feel sleepy, relaxed and grounded.
Is it ok to have an erection during the massage?
Yes of course! And having a soft penis is also perfectly ok. All good when it comes to Tantra massage.
Can Tantra massage help with premature ejaculation?
Yes. Tantra can help men who struggle with quick and involuntary ejaculation to slow down and become more aware of their arousal patterns and to have a better sense of where “the point of no return” is.
I’ve never had an orgasm before. Can a yoni massage help with this?
Yes. During a yoni massage you will have a chance to notice and observe new sensations. As you become curious and begin to let go of goals and expectations you can find that you begin to experience orgasmic waves and states.
How can I prepare for a Tantra massage?
Make sure that you give yourself a bit of time before the session to check in with yourself and connect with a wish/intention for the session. Similarly allow yourself some time afterwards to process and integrate as these can be powerful experiences. No need to bring anything special with you. You might wish to shower beforehand and you can of course shower again once you’re here.
Can you receive a Tantra massage when you're pregnant?
During pregnancy it is best to support the yin energy and therefore a Tantra massage may not be the best choice as it can be activating. Similarly, it is not recommended for women with a history of miscarriage or high-risk pregnancy to provoke orgasmic energy as contractions of the uterus during orgasm can be dangerous.
What’s the goal of Tantra massage?
Tantra is actually a non-goal oriented massage. The aim is to relax, to sink into your own body and physical experience and to allow yourself to gently surrender to your sensations and to connect to yourself more deeply.
What do you wear during a Tantra massage?
During the opening ritual you wear a lungi (which I provide) without underwear. When the massage begins, I remove your lungi and also my own from the waist upwards.
Can I touch you during the massage?
You are in the receiving role and so mutual sensual touch is absolutely not exchanged. However, if you find it grounding to hold my leg or arm during the touch, this is absolutely o.k.
What happens if I can’t switch off and relax?
I will gently invite you to breathe with me and to let go of expectations and will guide you back into your body with ease and flow.
What happens if I get emotional?
This is absolutely welcomed. Let the smiles, tears, giggles, excitement come. It’s all welcome and part of the process. You are safe to express yourself.
Can Tantra help with low libido?
Tantra massage can promote relaxation, reduce stress, and increase feelings of intimacy and connection to self. For some people, low libido can be related to stress, anxiety, or emotional disconnect and therefore Tantra massage may help address these issues by promoting relaxation and deeper connection.
Is Tantra Massage just basically a Happy Ending Massage?
A Tantra Massage is not a sexual act or a sexual exchange and the goal is not to have an orgasm or to ejaculate. However, when receiving Tantric touch, sexual energy is activated and energetic waves build in the body, sometimes resulting in climax. This is all perfectly normal, ok and welcomed.
What about if something hurts or doesn’t feel right?
We will be in communication throughout the massage as necessary and I will check in with you to see if the touch and pressure feel ok. The touch is completely consensual at all times and if anything hurts or doesn’t feel right you tell me and we stop immediately.
I have a health condition, mental or physical disability. Is a Tantra massage right for me?
During our intro chat we will clarify whether working with me will be a suitable option for you.
Can having Tantra massage help me with my relationship issues?
Tantra massage first and foremost connects us with ourselves which is the first essential step to having better relationships with others. By incorporating mindfulness and sensual touch into your relationship you can enhance intimacy and foster a greater understanding of each other's needs. However, it's important to approach it with mutual consent and a willingness to explore together for the best results.
What happens if I need to cancel a session?
The terms and conditions are binding and are accepted when booking a Tantra massage. Please read them carefully and if you have any questions or queries please contact me in advance. Please note that if bookings are cancelled with less than 24 hours notice, 50% of the massage price is charged.
Where does the massage take place?
The massage takes place in a cosy room near to Basel. I provide details of the address etc on booking.
A Tantra massage is a holistic massage which includes consensual touch everywhere in the body, including genitals.
What should I look for in a Tantra practitioner if I’ve never had a massage?
A professional Tantra masseuse will have undertaken rigorous training and acquired an officially recognised certification, will generally request an introductory chat before the session and will work in a safe, trustworthy and nurturing way with clear boundaries. Professional Tantra practitioners offer massage with clearly defined roles (client receives, practitioner gives).
How do I book and pay?
The steps are:
- We have an intro chat to connect and so you can ask any questions you might have.
- If it feels like a good fit, we find a suitable date together and book the session.
- I send you an invoice payable by bank transfer or Twint prior to the session or you can pay by cash on the day.
- I send you a Client Agreement Form with Terms and Conditions (to sign) and a short Intake Form to complete.
Can I have a Tantra massage when I have my period?
Yes, it’s fine to have a Tantra massage when you have your period. You can wear a tampon which can be removed if you wish during the session. Not a problem at all.
Is it a sexual massage?
Tantra massage seeks to activate our sexual, Kundalini or life force energy which is located at the bottom of the spine and to nourish the body and energetic field with this energy. It is possible to have highly arousing and orgasmic sensations and waves and it is equally possible to feel sleepy, relaxed and grounded.
Is it ok to have an erection during the massage?
Yes of course! And having a soft penis is also perfectly ok. All good when it comes to Tantra massage.
Can Tantra massage help with premature ejaculation?
Yes. Tantra can help men who struggle with quick and involuntary ejaculation to slow down and become more aware of their arousal patterns and to have a better sense of where “the point of no return” is.
I’ve never had an orgasm before. Can a yoni massage help with this?
Yes. During a yoni massage you will have a chance to notice and observe new sensations. As you become curious and begin to let go of goals and expectations you can find that you begin to experience orgasmic waves and states.
How can I prepare for a Tantra massage?
Make sure that you give yourself a bit of time before the session to check in with yourself and connect with a wish/intention for the session. Similarly allow yourself some time afterwards to process and integrate as these can be powerful experiences. No need to bring anything special with you. You might wish to shower beforehand and you can of course shower again once you’re here.
Can you receive a Tantra massage when you're pregnant?
During pregnancy it is best to support the yin energy and therefore a Tantra massage may not be the best choice as it can be activating. Similarly, it is not recommended for women with a history of miscarriage or high-risk pregnancy to provoke orgasmic energy as contractions of the uterus during orgasm can be dangerous.
What’s the goal of Tantra massage?
Tantra is actually a non-goal oriented massage. The aim is to relax, to sink into your own body and physical experience and to allow yourself to gently surrender to your sensations and to connect to yourself more deeply.
What do you wear during a Tantra massage?
During the opening ritual you wear a lungi (which I provide) without underwear. When the massage begins, I remove your lungi and also my own from the waist upwards.
Can I touch you during the massage?
You are in the receiving role and so mutual sensual touch is absolutely not exchanged. However, if you find it grounding to hold my leg or arm during the touch, this is absolutely o.k.
What happens if I can’t switch off and relax?
I will gently invite you to breathe with me and to let go of expectations and will guide you back into your body with ease and flow.
What happens if I get emotional?
This is absolutely welcomed. Let the smiles, tears, giggles, excitement come. It’s all welcome and part of the process. You are safe to express yourself.
Can Tantra help with low libido?
Tantra massage can promote relaxation, reduce stress, and increase feelings of intimacy and connection to self. For some people, low libido can be related to stress, anxiety, or emotional disconnect and therefore Tantra massage may help address these issues by promoting relaxation and deeper connection.
Is Tantra Massage just basically a Happy Ending Massage?
A Tantra Massage is not a sexual act or a sexual exchange and the goal is not to have an orgasm or to ejaculate. However, when receiving Tantric touch, sexual energy is activated and energetic waves build in the body, sometimes resulting in climax. This is all perfectly normal, ok and welcomed.
What about if something hurts or doesn’t feel right?
We will be in communication throughout the massage as necessary and I will check in with you to see if the touch and pressure feel ok. The touch is completely consensual at all times and if anything hurts or doesn’t feel right you tell me and we stop immediately.
I have a health condition, mental or physical disability. Is a Tantra massage right for me?
During our intro chat we will clarify whether working with me will be a suitable option for you.
Can having Tantra massage help me with my relationship issues?
Tantra massage first and foremost connects us with ourselves which is the first essential step to having better relationships with others. By incorporating mindfulness and sensual touch into your relationship you can enhance intimacy and foster a greater understanding of each other's needs. However, it's important to approach it with mutual consent and a willingness to explore together for the best results.
What happens if I need to cancel a session?
The terms and conditions are binding and are accepted when booking a Tantra massage. Please read them carefully and if you have any questions or queries please contact me in advance. Please note that if bookings are cancelled with less than 24 hours notice, 50% of the massage price is charged.
Where does the massage take place?
The massage takes place in a cosy room near to Basel. I provide details of the address etc on booking.
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A cosy room near Basel
Joseph Campbell
“Follow your bliss and the universe will open doors where there were only walls”
